Tell yourself you are attractive. Every fucking day. Always maintain good hygiene. Dress well, stylish but still you. Have a go-to cologne. Always have an open mind. Keep your hands and nails, face and hair groomed. Be a gentlemen: open doors, pull out chairs, compliment when necessary, look in a woman’s eye’s when you’re speaking to her, be assertive, walk on the outside of the sidewalk, etc. Don’t be fucking rude. Communicate.